"Oh look Ahmad's talking about that icky thing called love again" well yeah! People just seem to suck at relationships, not me of course, she's awesome :D.
There is no such thing as "love at first site". Sure you can fancy someone with one long glare, but thats about it. This means if you fell in love with an idiot, you made that happen and heres why.
The most important step into a relationship is finding someone (obviously). The key to ensure the relationship works is picking someone "right". Too often people seem to fall for idiots in desperation, his violent behavior aint so charming now is it?
First and foremost, pick someone you can trust. Guys I just dont get it, why try a long term relationship with a girl who's clearly a recovering whore who aint so good at recovering bit? It's just plain stupid when your angry as fuck when you don't know where she is and the truth is she's probably "doinking" some random dude. Ouch.
Now to those Ladies who went for the "stud". It's kinda sucks that he's a tad bit violent and kinda unfaithful aint it? but then why choose a dickhead? You ignore all them regular guys who can genuinely treat a girl right and then your all shocked when he acts like a "dick" so you pollute our Facebook news feeds with depressing songs and sad sad statuses. just No ok!
Now to the whores them self's. Creeping around, going through tons of "casual" relationships aint really gonna fulfill your love life. Sure on the odd occasion it does work out for two very lucky people but for those who it work out for, don't act surprised! It's like taking lots of cars out for a test drive and then being pissed off when a dealership don't just hand you the car for free. Rather illogical don't you think?
Bottom line is if your looking for the "one" be smart. Go for someone who's a genuine match. Think about compatibility. I'm not saying analyse them like a fucking petri dish but just think a little. Use that now rare entity called common sense. With out genuine trust, interest and similarities it won't be easy and no matter how many times some nob tells you "opposites attract" it aint true. It's about a fair balance between similarities and differences, that way you can enjoy doing what you have always done and at the same time have fun exploring his or hers interests. Keeps things fresh and exciting.
No no honestly, your welcome.
Yours truly
The Love Guru.
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