Yes it sounds immensely mushy but hear me out. When you consider someone a "loved one" wether that be your Brother, your partner or a friend, emotions towards these people will always be high. Sometimes these strong feeling can cause arguments.
Everyone has disagreements. When it happens between people you love things can easily escalate. That does not mean you love that person less or you dont even love them at all. In fact it's probably the opposite. Like I said before all that love leads to a lot of emotion.
What really defines your love for that person is how quickly you can forgive and move on. Being Human we will always fight. The act of letting go emotions such as Ego and pride are actions that truly prove a persons feelings towards a loved one.
Love can not be measured with regards to the amount of arguments you have. In fact a couple that don't argue in my eyes are so fake. It means both of them aren't being them self's and instead put on a fake persona just to please the other and what you get is 2 people falling in love with a persons act as supposed to their real self's.
To put it quite simply. You will have arguments with loved ones. The strength of your love comes down to your ability to forgive and forget.
Wow I feel asl "smushy" after saying the word love so many times. I'm gona go break something to feel manly again.
P.S - Fuck Jeremy Kyle. Someone give me a show!
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